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Posts that are about myself, my life and my experiences.


This is the Biggest Lie We Tell People
The biggest lie we tell people is "actions speak louder than words". You might be thinking "What on earth is this moron on about?"
Byran Ferrol
Apr 14, 20234 min read


Things people do that make no bloody sense
And the irony is, the more you know, the more you realise you don't know.
Byran Ferrol
Mar 14, 20235 min read


Tell people what you really think about them
We like hearing nice things about ourselves and I don't know about you but I like saying nice things about other people.
Byran Ferrol
Feb 4, 20235 min read


I'm 28 - So why do I feel like my life is over?
Where are all the years going? I have learnt that when I am in my feels that is when I am most consistent with the blog posts. I know the...
Byran Ferrol
Jan 6, 20236 min read


The Truth About Me and This Blog
I feel like I might've already written a post with a similar title not too long ago... well, them be the breaks. Let me just start by...
Byran Ferrol
Jan 2, 20233 min read


If you know me, you should read this
I have a lot to say... one of the reasons why I started this blog was for that very reason. Actually let me rephrase - I have a lot to...
Byran Ferrol
Dec 19, 20224 min read


Men liking people
Of course men and women are different in a lot of ways but we are also very similar in others.
Byran Ferrol
May 22, 20224 min read


The End of ByranCito
I am seriously considering abandoning the ByranCito name. And this is for a few reasons which I'll try and lay out for you:
Byran Ferrol
Apr 10, 20223 min read


You're Special
The thing we are naturally good at isn't always able to be monetized but it doesn't mean that the skills we have aren't valuable.
Byran Ferrol
Jan 24, 20222 min read


Yes, I'm Sad
But I do think it takes a certain level of empathy and emotional maturity to allow people to just be in a bad mood.
Byran Ferrol
Dec 22, 20214 min read


Tales from my DMs: How a text can lead to a mental health crisis
what I don't want to do is paint myself as a complete victim. We all know that in most situations it's never black and white.
Byran Ferrol
Apr 6, 202113 min read


No, men don't need to "talk more"
Men are often told that it is because of toxic masculinity that they feel as though they can't open up and be vulnerable.
Byran Ferrol
Mar 4, 20216 min read


The problems with writing a blog
And because this is a place where I want to feel comfortable expressing myself fully I understand that this can come at a consequence.
Byran Ferrol
Jan 22, 20216 min read


Dealing with a pandemic in your 20s
Photo by cottonbro on Pexels.com I planned to write a more general piece about living life in your 20s. But I thought I’d make it more...
Byran Ferrol
Sep 22, 20203 min read


Things not to say to a black man
There seems to be a lot of people speaking for others these days. I really have tried to to abstain from talking about something like...
Byran Ferrol
Aug 4, 202012 min read


Showing Skin
Our most predominant organ is often stigmatised. When you hear the phrase “showing skin” it’s usually in relation to someone...
Byran Ferrol
Jun 29, 20204 min read


That time I was stopped and searched
Between April 2018 and March 2019 there were 7 stop and searches for every 1,000 people, down from 25 per 1,000 people between April 2009...
Byran Ferrol
Jun 19, 20206 min read


Why working with children is one of the best things you can do.
Was hoping for one more summer. We all know things in the world aren’t okay. And quite frankly I’m getting sick and tired of prefacing...
Byran Ferrol
Jun 10, 20205 min read
How I got into photography
It’s always important to look back at where you came from.
Byran Ferrol
Feb 9, 20201 min read
Why I’m leaving Instagram…
I’m only leaving for a bit, how long “a bit” is I don’t even know. I’m at a point now where social media consumption has become a...
Byran Ferrol
Jan 26, 20201 min read
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